Parenting Challenges in Modern Ghana : Are We Losing Control?

Parenting has never been easy, but in today's fast-changing Ghanaian society, it's becoming even more complicated. From the influence of social media to economic hardship, parents are facing enormous challenges in raising disciplined, focused, and responsible children. Are we, as a nation, beginning to lose grip on the values that once shaped strong families?

1. The Pressure of Modern Living

Many parents now juggle multiple jobs just to make ends meet. This leaves little time to guide children or monitor their behavior. In the absence of parental presence, TV, smartphones, and social media often take over, teaching children things that may not align with our cultural or moral values.

2. The Influence of Western Culture

From the way children dress to the music they listen to, there's no denying the strong influence of foreign cultures. While some exposure can be positive, many children today imitate lifestyles that promote disrespect, materialism, and rebellion, often at odds with Ghanaian values of respect, humility, and hard work.

3. Discipline Without Abuse : A Lost Balance

Some parents still cling to the old methods of strict discipline, while others fear using any form of correction at all. This imbalance creates confusion for children. We must redefine discipline, not as abuse, but as loving correction and consistent boundaries.

4. Schools and Churches Can’t Do It Alone

It’s common to hear parents say, “The teacher or pastor will correct them.” But the primary responsibility lies with the home. Teachers and religious leaders are only meant to support,not replace,parents in the moral upbringing of a child.

5. What Can We Do?

Spend quality time with your children, no matter how busy you are.

Monitor their media consumption and online activity.

Teach by example: children often do what we do, not what we say.

Seek support from parenting groups, churches, and schools when needed.

Conclusion:

The future of Ghana lies in the hands of today’s children, and parenting is the foundation. We must rise to the challenge, adapt to the times, and return to the principles that build strong, value-driven families. Ghana needs more intentional parents, starting with you and me.

By Emmanuel Abanti